Question for you.
Apple makes and sells a lot of devices that are Space Gray in color. Macs, iPhones, iPads. Do you believe that space gray is a "standard" for consumer electronics case color?
Likewise, all AirPods (other than the Max) are white and plastic. Is white plastic the "standard" for wireless earbuds?
The word "standard" has meaning.
Standards bodies define what standards are, not you, not I, although ironically, look what company is listed first as having sat on the promoter workgroup that defined the USB-C standard? Apple helped create USB-C, and did so knowing full well they would replace Lightning with it. Yet they dragged out the process out of desire to maintain control.
Apple maintaining proprietary control over Lightning as an Apple-only connector does not make it a standard, it makes it an
obstacle to standardization and that's problem.