Now, I go to one of those snobby private rich kid schools. In Texas. I hate it. So many of the kids don't appreciate what they have, and many of them get a new car for their 16th birthday with almost no strings attached (I got a used car for Christmas, but the string is that I will eventually have to pay back my dad when I get a job). So it comes as no surprise that many kids have iPhones, and a good lot of them have cracked screens. High school kids, whattareyagonnado?
But then my sister in the middle school is ranting about one of her classmates (6th grade) who has already gone through 3 iPhones, each one of them broken, and her parents didn't think twice about getting her a new one each time, like it was a $10 t-shirt or something.
She actually got the first one signed by "Hannah Montana". After she broke it. Miley reportedly made the comment that she had gone through two before giving up and getting a cheaper, more durable phone.
So many people just don't get the concept of responsibility. But what's sad is when the parents are so obviously to blame - as is the case for 90% of the ignorant snobbery that happens in my school.
money = love
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"Take responsibility for your actions, because ultimately they cannot be returned and it will be other people who have to live with your defective merchandise." (*ahem* M$) - Me
Sometimes we ridicule the snobs only to find out that we are one too.
You do make some points that demonstrate the behavior of some. And, it is true that some people don't appreciate the luxuries they are afforded.
But, your delivery indicates that you are one of the snobby kids. You just fit in a slightly different clique and perhaps don't have the abundant cash they do. But, you don't need money or luxuries to be a snob.
You'll grow up and mature. And, hopefully the delivery of your ideas will mature as well. But, the attitude in your posting (the way your words come across) indicates that you are not significantly different from those you complain of. Just have a slightly different perspective is all.
With experience and time, that will all change. Just tone it down a bit. Accept that they have money. And, concern yourself more with yourself.
From my perspective, that you've gained benefit of a car without saving up for it in advance through your own hard work would indicate that you've got it easy.
I worked my childhood, and anything I needed (more accurately "Wanted" ) beyond the standard necessities of food, essential clothing, and shelter were provided by my own funds.
While I worked and earned money before this, I was responsible for earning my own income fully by the age of 10. And, things that you take for granted were provided out of my own income. Even the bed I slept on came out of my own money.
I don't find that harsh. And, I consider that as having quite easy compared to what others may have had growing up.
I learned responsibility. I learned to work and provide. And, I learned some valuable lessons from those I worked with in the real world. Mind you, I wasn't working typical kid jobs. Rather, I was working in the real world earning a paycheck. I just wasn't permitted to disclose my age to the customers (I wasn't of working age, and I looked older than I was - and carried myself well). Serious guesses by some placed me at around 20 by just over 10, and at 30 by 15. I just had a build, behavior, and nature that didn't show my true age.
Fortunately, I don't look like I'm 15 or 20 years older than I am now
There will always be kids that have it easier than yourself. And, there will always be kids that have it worse than you could possibly imagine.
I consider myself to have had a good childhood. I consider my life in general to have been mostly fortunate.
I'm less concerned with social status than most. I could claim high ranking I guess if I cared. But, I'm happy just being a person. And, if you can ignore the rest and focus on just being happy with yourself, then that's all you need.
Don't worry about those other kids. Don't compare yourself to those other kids.
Focus on yourself, and focus on who you want to be.
The comparisons you draw now, only serve to make you look envious and a snob in your own way.
Perhaps I had a unique situation in school. But, I didn't care about social class, or money. I was equally accepted and comfortable with kids of every class. I could hang out with just about anyone I wanted. The preppy types, the nerds, the chemically induced / or shall we say chemically relaxed, and even the rich kids.
It didn't really matter to me. And, since I didn't care, it didn't really matter to them. So, the preppy kids saw me with the nerds messing around. Who cares. So, the stoners saw me with the jocks... Who cares. The rich kids saw me with the stoners (or even under the influence) who cares. I hung out with whoever I wanted when I wanted.
Social class is only an issue when you let it be one. Drop the attitudes, just be a fun and interesting person to be around, and you'll fit in everywhere.
I could jump from one group to the next quite easy. I still get along with people of various lifestyles and social classes.
In the end, it is you who will determine whether you fit in. You don't have to change to be accepted. Just be yourself and don't care whether you fit a mold.
But, first and foremost, don't fool yourself into thinking that it's only "them" that are the snobs.