OP is ignorant. LOL.
More RAM = More power used. Unlike flash memory, RAM requires a constant supply of power to maintain the contents. Apple fit enough RAM for 99% of the users and everyone benefits with better battery life.
Simples.
Generally thats rarely the case in any modern device regardless of CPU efficiency.
Apps in the background go into a suspended state and reside in RAM until foreground processes need RAM and it pushes the suspended process out.
So having physically less RAM is more energy efficient only until apps are being pushed out of a suspended state and then need to be reloaded which uses more CPU, GPU, cellular/wifi data radios, screen on time while loading etc etc.
Adding 100 gb of RAM would be a waste in battery. Adding 1-2 gb would likely save battery for the above mentioned reasons.