i lost my job dec 2007 and it took me 6 month to find a new one. the reality is i dind;t look for a job for about three month and after the job offer i stalled them for another 4 weeks. I'm a scientist with a quite stable jobsituation so lokking for jobs is nothing I'm good at.
lessons learned:
1.) care about cash:
saved up cash for 6 month
massachussetts has 6 month good unemployment insurance
checked that i get severance pay
2.) make sure you have health care
got cobra
3.) update CV
sounds easy but is a lot more complicated. had to collect slides and data for my interviews (we usually give presentations)
4.) check job offers and learn how to read and how to respond to them
5.) network, network, network
most important, contact all friends, tell them you will get booted, ask for help, collect contacts, talk to other job seekers, network! get a short pitch that allows you to tell people in 20 sec that you need a job and what you want. check and update your references. more than two. at least 5 from different fields, companies.
6.) since you already contacted your friends it's much easier to talk to them. no awkward moment anymore when it comes up that you're unemployed. it is very important for your ego to feel ok with the fact that you need a job.
7.) make sure you have enough social contacts and don't get lonely. posting here doesn't count. do exciting things. learn about jobs. make yourself feel good about yourself. people notice that and are way more likely to hire or recommend you.
I got really lucky and got a job within 6 weeks of seriuos search. but till i really started took about 3 month. and the most important thing after getting your finances under control is really to stay in good mood. it helps you thinking outside the box and find new jobs you didn't think about.