If you find out why the TP-Link is problematic, please post in this thread and let us know. The brand is so popular I can't imagine that is typical behavior. Also, please let us know what specific model that is; I'd be curious to see what reviewers on Amazon have to say about their experience.
Thanks for explaining a bit about Mikrotik. I've been seeing that name recently, know practically nothing about them and wondered why that is. Why doesn't Mikrotik have the brand recognition of TP-Link, ASUS, Netgear or Eero.?
The TP-Link model is "Archer BE220" and was running the latest firmware at the time of testing. Unlike Mikrotik (and some other routers) the QoS is quite basic. Just "on/off", with configurable upload and download limits and (if you wish) priority levels for named devices. It was, as noted, terrible. Which is a shame, as if ever a router needed a good QoS implementation it would be a Wi-Fi 7 one that has all wired ports limited to 1Gbps
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As to your final point, I agree they don't have the brand recognition among consumers. Mikrotik is a
tiny company relative to the usual names, and mainly served the professional market, ISPs and SIs. They use a traditional dealer model rather than fighting it out on price and volume on Amazon.
They are somewhat unusual in that even their low-end routers ship with their full (proprietary) RouterOS, no different to their pro gear in functionality. This has led to a perception of difficulty, as no home user needs a full BGP implementation for example. But the web management interface is now much improved (with a "quick setup" main screen that would work for 99% of home users) and there is a mobile app too. Both are in addition to the Windows and MacOS dedicated management application.
While I would hesitate to recommend to the truly tech-phobic, anyone reading this kind of forum would be able to manage it I am sure. And due to their large pro footprint and use by large ISPs, there is a lot of information and "how tos" on the internet for those that want to get in deeper. Their documentation is actually good, and they ship an update (you can choose stable or dev branches) frequently. My HeX router must be at least 10 years old and has more recent (like 2 weeks ago) firmware and OS than my 2026 TP-Link, whose latest update is actually from late last year.
Anyway, worth a look I think. Mikrotik makes Wi-Fi routers but even a simply HeX router (no Wi-fi onboard) is under $100, and you can use that for the firewall/DHCP/QoS gateway. Just plug in any modern and cheap Wi-Fi "router" as access points where you need them. Keeps all the important stuff away from the ever-changing wi-fi standards stuff and simplifies management, even if you mix brands of access point. Plus Mikrotik QoS includes "cake" (as well as many other protocols) which in my experience is both fantastically effective, as well as simple to set up.