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Call her tomorrow. Don't begin whatever this may be by playing games of "I can't call for a week" stuff. She's already given you her number and is now wondering if you'll call. Why make her wait? I think the longer you wait past tomorrow the more of a doucher (TDD) this makes you look.

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[MorphingDragon]

You'll find the most interesting people at Food places. My sister met her Fiancee at a bakery/cafe. I met my X at a music festival cafe...

Wait aren't you like 18+(?), have an apartment and you still don't know how to handle a number.

Nah I'm kidding, I'm sure you can.

 

[dukebound85]

You'll find the most interesting people at Food places. My sister met her Fiancee at a bakery/cafe. I met my X at a music festival cafe...

Wait aren't you like 18+(?), have an apartment and you still don't know how to handle a number.

Nah I'm kidding, I'm sure you can.

haha yea im closing in on 25 with a place of my own and nope, not the best on handling numbers!


well from what i read, the consensus is call today

 

[eawmp1]

Call her..go out...see where it leads. You never know what will happen to your heart when it gets pulled in 2 different directions.

 

[mscriv]

Call her today or tomorrow and tell her that you are "thankful" that she offered the number and would love the opportunity to go out and start getting to know her.

 

[dukebound85]

called her, got voice mail, said hi, introduced myself and said we should get a coffee sometime

no call back yet

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

 

[mscriv]

Congrats man. The initial stages of getting to know someone are so exciting. Have fun and don't take it too serious.

 

[Surely]

called her, got voice mail, said hi, introduced myself and said we should get a coffee sometime

no call back yet

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

See?

No games works.

 

[Don't panic]

called her, got voice mail, said hi, introduced myself and said we should get a coffee sometime

no call back yet

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

good luck and keep us posted

and if you guys enjoy each other tonight, you still have time to buy a turkey, invite a few friends and organize her a thanksgiving dinner

 

[Doju]

The man!

Haha, congrats. Keep us posted.

 

[ucfgrad93]

called her, got voice mail, said hi, introduced myself and said we should get a coffee sometime

no call back yet

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

Sweet! Keep us informed!

 

[Jason Beck]

So I decided to get out of my apt and go use my laptop as a portable computer for once.....which is really kinda cool lol (always used it like a desktop before)

So I went to a coffee shop and low and behold 2 girls sat down about 20 feet to my 11 o clock at a different table. They were cute

Well I couldnt help my self to not look in their direction and made eye contact once or twice and being the *********** I am, I look away immediately lol

Well they left and then the one who caught eyes with me had her frined walk back in, come up to me and said " the girl I was with thought you were pretty cute and wanted me to give you this". Had a number

Made my day as it would anyone

My question is how long do I wait to actually call? A week? Def not tonight

And why does this have to happen when I am dead set on moving back to Co????

Right on brother! I would agree with everyone else, call dude. she's interested, ball is in your court!

 

[Surely]

Right on brother! I would agree with everyone else, call dude. she's interested, ball is in your court!

Psssst....... read the rest of the thread......

 

[Jason Beck]

Psssst....... read the rest of the thread......

NICE!! Buy coffee for her, pull her chair out, and don't be scurred!
Ask her about herself, etc. Make eye contact, and wear AXE! LOL
ahahah
I've been married for 2 months, but with my wife for 5 years. I used
to have some serious game, you go boy!
lol

 

[Watabou]

Just posting to subscribe since this is an interesting topic and since I'm bad at handling numbers too.

 

[Surely]

Just posting to subscribe since this is an interesting topic and since I'm bad at handling numbers too.

Hey, just for future reference, you can subscribe to any thread without posting by going to 'Thread Tools' at the top of the page.

See:

 

[jecapaga]

Wait, are you calling TDD a doucher, or crediting the word to him?

I have to give credit where it's due

called her, got voice mail, said hi, introduced myself and said we should get a coffee sometime

no call back yet

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

Excellent! Post your results. My guess is you probably scored points for being attentive and interested enough to call in a timely manner. Nobody wants to feel like they are not interesting enough to only get a call a week or days later.

 

[Watabou]

Hey, just for future reference, you can subscribe to any thread without posting by going to 'Thread Tools' at the top of the page.

See:

Ah, didn't know that. Sorry and thanks.

 

[sushi]

See? No games works.

That much is certain.

edit: she called back and we are getting together tonight for coffee

Fantastic!

Be yourself and have fun.

 

[alFR]

Excellent! Post your results.

Possible thread for pictures forum: "Post your first date results"?

 

[dukebound85]

well we had a great time

now I have a dilemma

She invited me to Thanksgiving with her family

I had also said I would go to my friends place with his wife and inlaws

Im thinking I will stay true to my friends offer and invite her to do something later?

 

[TSE]

Definitely go with your original plans. You've only been on one date with her and you probably are still closer to your friend. Maybe invite her along or ask her to do something afterwards.

 

[AppleMatt]

well we had a great time

now I have a dilemma

She invited me to Thanksgiving with her family

I had also said I would go to my friends place with his wife and inlaws

Im thinking I will stay true to my friends offer and invite her to do something later?

I'm thinking you're right:
- You made that commitment first.
- Mates before dates.
- Women like men who are accepted by others (especially other women). It's strange. Women are strange.

If after hearing this she tells you to sod off, she wasn't really suitable in the first place. Mind you, meeting her family after one coffee? Took my gf about 4 months to talk me into meeting the family.

Oh, and I hope you bang her.

AppleMatt

 

[fireshot91]

That seems like a fairly quick time period to meet her parents. But then again, I'm 15, what do I know? .

Congrats on getting her on a date though.

 

[rdowns]

Oh, hell no. You barely know the girl. The last thing you need is some dysfunctional family (all families are dysfunctional) at this point in your relationship.

Tell her you were invited to a friends and ask her if she wants to get together after dinner or tomorrow.