I have always wondered if there was such a thing as "etiquette" when it comes to introducing yourself to someone, whether they be of the opposite sex or not. I am going to a music concert myself on thurs. and wanted to know on effective ways on breaking the ice with some of the people I may meet there. In the past I always would use phrases such as "so that one guy... yeah he's got a mean guitar solo... yeah...." Often times this results in people who turn their backs to me, especially if their in groups for some reason. Women, lol anytime I introduce myself at an event they immediately are quick to say "oh but im leaving soon" and I feel like saying "dude, can we talk? Im not asking you to sleep with me. I don't even know your name and just five seconds ago all I said was hello... Jeebus..." So um yeah, they say that "its not what you know, but who you know". Do you believe that holds true anywhere?