Hmm the first half of your post disagrees with me but the second half agrees...make your mind up
I agree that a phone should let you access your most used features quickly. I don't agree that widgets are a requirement for that. I can access my most used features quickly and I don't have any widgets.
It seems that we're just going around in circles here. For some people, widgets are an invaluable tool to make their phones more productive/useful. For others, widgets would serve no practical use.