I need help about a girl

[rei101]

Hey

I was reading everything. The case with the girl is real, actually too much of a cliche.

I am not contacting her at all. I just met her, we really liked each other, I knew she was sort of a bit too young but she was a lady when we met and I noticed that she was looking for someone reliable and no more kids. The problem was that she had these friends already and when they realized I was able to open her eyes, they sabotaged everything.

Still, I have been doing some stuff for her from a very safe distance.

This is not the case of a problematic woman, this is a woman who grew up pushed to be like that.

Guys, it was so strange for me, when you find someone used to sex slavery. When she came from Cuba she was actually bought! a man paid $2000 to the government and brought her to Miami when she was 21. She still believe he was her boyfriend. Now... the problem is that she believe that is normal and that is why she does not talk about it like we do. I mean... such strange world.

Any way... sharing all these with you all is actually therapeutic to me. I am realizing in this life we are going to suffer, we are going to have attachments and we have to let go. All we can do is do our best but never losing our path.

That is her life, I was there for her but things didn't work out. Yes, I will lose money, reputation and all sort of resources specially my integrity if I get into that and I am not in that position. God will know.

I did my best.

 

[rei101]

Well...
Today I did 2 phone calls, one to report the man and another one to another organization to help her out. This organization works with immigrants who "are having a hard time", basically human trafficking, but they are very sutler in their approach.

That is all I can do, I am away, I kept my distance, anonymous but doing the correct thing at the end. Lets the resources out there do their job.

 

[Raid]

Well...
Today I did 2 phone calls, one to report the man and another one to another organization to help her out. This organization works with immigrants who "are having a hard time", basically human trafficking, but they are very sutler in their approach.

That is all I can do, I am away, I kept my distance, anonymous but doing the correct thing at the end. Lets the resources out there do their job.

Good. From now on stay the hell out of the situation. You did the right thing for the both of you.

 

[sdilley14]

Well...
Today I did 2 phone calls, one to report the man and another one to another organization to help her out. This organization works with immigrants who "are having a hard time", basically human trafficking, but they are very sutler in their approach.

That is all I can do, I am away, I kept my distance, anonymous but doing the correct thing at the end. Lets the resources out there do their job.

Well played.

 

[fat jez]

You can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved, or won't recognize they might need help.

Sadly this is so true. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and threw it away. All I got out of it is somebody who is no different and a few lost friends.

Not worth the hassle, walk away.

 

[rei101]

Sadly this is so true. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and threw it away. All I got out of it is somebody who is no different and a few lost friends.

Not worth the hassle, walk away.

Yes, but I remember she having other plans. I mean, I am not grabbing her for an arm, I just know she is sinking and I sent a life boat. You have to consider, she does not know what a life boat is, that was the surreal thing. Again, that is the most I can do I have to fallow my path, my path needs me!

 

[fat jez]

Yes, but I remember she having other plans. I mean, I am not grabbing her for an arm, I just know she is sinking and I sent a life boat. You have to consider, she does not know what a life boat is, that was the surreal thing. Again, that is the most I can do I have to fallow my path, my path needs me!

You can offer the help and it's commendable to do so, just be careful of getting sucked into a situation where you get taken advantage off and hurt. Know when to walk away, is all I'm saying.

 

[rei101]

After reading and so, I have been very clear. Is not actually "ME" it is something inside of me who is clicking and driving my energy into some more important things that need my attention like my own path.

I have my distance from the situation more clear. It seems God is helping me to re focus. The story is too scrambled for me to intervene, again, by calling I believe I did what I was supposed to.

 

[ucfgrad93]

Well...
Today I did 2 phone calls, one to report the man and another one to another organization to help her out. This organization works with immigrants who "are having a hard time", basically human trafficking, but they are very sutler in their approach.

That is all I can do, I am away, I kept my distance, anonymous but doing the correct thing at the end. Lets the resources out there do their job.

I think you handled that well.