I get what OP is saying and appreciate their situation as very close to my own. However, the quote above is essentially my rationale for upgrading. I'm coming from a 13 Pro, and it has been an enjoyable daily driver for 4 years. Unfortunately, the charging port is going out, the battery is at 82%, and I'm not under AppleCare anymore. Our AT&T plan is offering $0/mo for 36 months for either a 256GB 17 Pro or regular 17 with trade-in of my 13 Pro. This is a no-brainer!My normal replacement cycle is when Apple stops supporting new software versions to lower my annual cost of ownership.
Apple was only going to offer me $200 for my 13 Pro, which likely would get rescinded since it has a few faint scratches on the screen from beach sand.
I was completely happy with my 13 Pro when yesterday I received an email offer from ATT (confirmed not SPAM) to upgrade to a 17 Pro for free with a trade in of a 13 or greater regardless of condition, which implies next year the 13 would be dropped from the list of eligible trade in.
The offer was a bit misleading as it required a one time charge for $77, which I was happy to pay. The only downside is I have to wait until October 5th to pick it up from the ATT store since they don’t have any in stock.
Not often you find $1000 lying on the ground. I wasn’t going to simply step over it.
I spent a while in the Apple Store yesterday messing around with both the regular 17 and the 17 Pro. I really like the regular 17. It felt great in my hands and the ProMotion screen is by far my biggest consideration now for a phone. (I'm squarely in the camp of people who can tell a difference between 60Hz and 120 Hz.) The colors are also much more palatable to my tastes. However, I really liked the way the 17 Pro felt in my hands, too. I didn't mind at all the aluminum feel versus the glass/steel of the 13 Pro. Plus, I'm gonna put either phone in a protective case on day 1! I also think the 12GB vs 8GB RAM will prove useful in the future. Therefore, I'm essentially looking at spending $0 for either the regular or the Pro. (We're not getting off of AT&T anytime soon!) At that point, I can't rationally choose the regular.
Plus, due to the generosity of a family member, I'm going with the 1TB model this time around. I'm gonna spend the next 3+ years with all our iCloud photos/videos always downloaded to my phone in full resolution glory!