See, most people have friends and a social structure where they learn how to interact with others.
Judging by your blatant rudeness, disrespect, and clear paranoia it's obvious you lack a social circle of your own, and I think all of us here can see why.
Some fun, and relevant facts for you:
1.) Unless you're specifically using questionable apps? Your camera isn't on, and no one is spying on you.
2.) An iPhone isn't the target a "hacker" wants because the OS is entirely sandboxed. Meaning the camera doesn't just pop on to check out your neck beard, as it has to be activated by an app.
3.) In the event someone used your phone to spy on you, they'd be more interested in the GPS and microphones than cameras.
4.) Chicks do not dig fedoras.
5.) Asking for help and being rude not only derails your need for assistance, but makes people dislike you, or perhaps even mock you.
6.) You aren't important enough to be spied on by the government or a private firm.
Now run along upstairs. I'm sure your mom is making a nice turkey.