Two points: first, what this video is showing is nothing like the performance I get with my machine. His is much slower. Second, where's the comparison to 4K?
There are no complaints about 4k on the nMP. Thousands of professionals use those every day for image editing on 4k monitors. If there was any similar issue to that shown above, we'd know about it.
I'm not saying LR is always slower on the retina iMac at 5k. Rather I'm saying I don't see how the 80% greater pixel count (vs 4k) would account for the slowdown magnitude *sometimes* observed. The fact you are not seeing it tends to support that -- it's not always seen.
Many have posted "of course it's slower -- it's 5k, what do you expect, Adobe should use the GPU", etc, etc. Your own experience casts that theory in doubt. If it's the unavoidable nature of the higher 5k pixel count, you'd see it 100% of the time on the same operations, and you'd see it more consistently across all apps, not just LR.