Seems like you need to continue to escalate through Apple if you can.Apple Support opened a ticket, but the "senior enterprise specialist" I was transferred to didn't know what an eGPU was, and then he went through the support doc with me and tried to claim that nowhere on there does it say an older Mac with TB3 would support 6k with the Blackmagic eGPU. I made him read it back to me until he agreed that this is exactly what the support doc says.
On the Blackmagic end, their support team only says this so far: