I am a very frustrated gmail user. switched to imap and now mail is so slow it is useless. that is at it's best. at it's worst, which is the rule and not the exception, i get the spinning wheel of death 90% of the time. this is ridiculous. what am i missing?! i've set it up as properly as possible! are some gmail imap accounts simply wonky?! many seem just fine! thanks, r.