If you think the handshaking business is confusing, some of you American guys should try living in the UK - especially London...
A combination of British reserve, American influence and becoming increasingly European means you never know whether you should shake hands, kiss on one cheek, kiss on both cheeks, hug ... pretty much the only thing we don't do over here is high five
Seriously, depending on which social/work circle I'm in, people expect to do completely different things, and it can be quite embarrassing to get it wrong. Sometimes in a work situation a polite French cheek-kiss is considered quite proper these days, and sometimes in a social situation people don't like to touch - so there's no easy rule depending on where you are.
A combination of British reserve, American influence and becoming increasingly European means you never know whether you should shake hands, kiss on one cheek, kiss on both cheeks, hug ... pretty much the only thing we don't do over here is high five
Seriously, depending on which social/work circle I'm in, people expect to do completely different things, and it can be quite embarrassing to get it wrong. Sometimes in a work situation a polite French cheek-kiss is considered quite proper these days, and sometimes in a social situation people don't like to touch - so there's no easy rule depending on where you are.