OK I'am back with the report. What I did seemed to help, here is my stats:
Usage: 3 hours 55 minutes ; Stand By 14 hours 56 minutes battery at 60% at this moment.
Of course I wouldn't call that great because most of the features are off, and when I start using twitter I can see it going down pretty fast. What I did for today: Took phone of charge at 7:15am now its 22:20 PM. I made a few phone calls, sent about 10 sms 5 with Siri and 5 by hand, checked twitter 2 time, made 3 appointments with Siri, checked facebook 1 time, took 3 photos. Thats about it, I wouldn't call that heavy use cuz I done this all within two hours. Oh yes and I listened to podcast for 2 hours.
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What I did, is restore the phone as new without restoring my backup. Under iCloud I disabled use Cellular, Under Siri - Raise to speak disabled, Notification set to manually, Location services: On - Siri, Facebook (enabled that 2 hours ago) and weather (enabled now), Under System Services (location) Enabled only Cell network Search, and Compass Calibration. Everything else is off.
So what can I say, my friend on iPhone 4 gets same battery life with everything enabled, this is better but still far from perfect.
What do you think?