To each his own, I quite like the new vibration (back to the rotating vibrate motor); it's strong which means I can feel it in my pocket when it's one silent.
If you are really looking for "silent" why even have vibrate on?
Well I don't know how thick your pockets are, but I was able to feel mine just fine.
And I was able to be in meetings and feel but not hear a message come in.
So you're happy, and I'm not.
You win.