This is why you don't buy children $700 phones.
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Sorry, but you dont know jack about work at 17. Especially when your parents hand you the keys to a brand new car. That's 2 paychecks away from "My Super Sweet 16". All that demonstrates is "You passed our test by working a whole year of your life. Here's a new car that we had to spend 20 years becoming successful so we can give it to our spoiled brat kid so he could feel better about himself and so others don't make fun of him for." Real work awards you the ability to not rely on anyone but yourself.
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Amen
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My parents gave me a nice car when I turned 17
Sorry, but you dont know jack about work at 17. Especially when your parents hand you the keys to a brand new car. That's 2 paychecks away from "My Super Sweet 16". All that demonstrates is "You passed our test by working a whole year of your life. Here's a new car that we had to spend 20 years becoming successful so we can give it to our spoiled brat kid so he could feel better about himself and so others don't make fun of him for." Real work awards you the ability to not rely on anyone but yourself.
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That being said, even though I could afford a new Mercedes for my daughter on her 16th birthday, I would never buy it for her. She's going to get a mid-90's corolla. Is it because I'm mean? Nope. It's because I want to instill a sense of work ethic, and HELP her work toward her goals... not just give her what she wants. That's just how I parent my children though, and that's my choice. Your parents chose to give you an expensive car, and that's great. But I will tell you... from experience, your sense of work ethic is rare in the cases when children are simply given everything they want.
Whew! A bit off topic, but oh well.
Amen