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good thing a year old thread was resurrected to rehash a problem that has god knows how many identical posts...
 
If you're looking for your own ringtones and are using 2.0 or 2.0.1 software I would suggest this application.
It works great with iTunes and automatically adds them so your next sync will upload your ringtone.

iPhone Ring Tone Maker
 
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