Yes, I know, I overstate
I've never had #1 happen to me, and I have several 1.5hr audio files. But clearly this isn't a problem unique to the ipod touch for you, so I don't see how this makes it worse than any other ipod.
#2 I agree its a bit annoying. Nothing a firmware update can't handle. C'mon apple!
#3 Honestly hasn't been to much of a problem for me. Dbl-click->pause has been sufficient for me. Not much more difficult than unlock->pause for my ipod classic.
Really? Worst iPod ever?