I've tried both changing both passwords (user and vnc), using either password, checking the hostname, changing my User username. I don't know what else to try.
Hi, I am also trying to use VNC with lion but there seems to be a glitch in my setup. When trying to connect I am logged into the Admin account on my mac and not the user account which I have set up for my self. This may be a Lion issue as the users allowed to share the screen cannot be modified in my preferences when logged in as the user; however, I am able to modify the list under the Admin account, but the modified list does not transfer over to the other accounts. Anybody else experience this? Did you find a solution?