I have had mine since late 2019. I'm happy with it. I don't like huge laptop screens anyway. I got some apps that I recommend (paid too but worth it) to help. One is a CPU temp app that gives you full control over the fans to help with cooling if you need it. Another few apps gives your Dashboard back if you liked it. It's not the full on dashboard but it's pretty much all those little skeuomorphic widgets you can place on one or more of your desktops.
I never got the hate for the touchbar. I like it. I use it as the toolbar in apps, so my apps can be full screen and take advantage of the screen while the touchbar has the stuff normally found on the toolbar. For example, my Safari back, forward, bookmarks, tabs, etc are on the touchbar so my webpages show in full screen.
As for the keyboard, Must have missed the memo on it. It hasn't given me any trouble but everyone on the forums seems to hate it.