A lot of people here love the 16" MPB and would recommend you to buy. However I would take their review with a grain of salt. While the 2019 MBP 16" is arguably Apple's greatest laptop to date maybe if won't fit your needs.
The screen is still the one of the industry's best but it shows its age (relatively weak contrast compared to OLED, only 220ppi, 4-year old tech ...) If this is a deal breaker for you I'd advise you to wait for the 2020 model. That's what I'm doing too.
Aside from the screen and design, almost everything else in this year's MBP has been revamped; much more comfortable keyboard, thinner bezel, 512GB SSD as base option, much better graphics, and incredible speakers.