Yeah, I don't disagree. I loved the "stick it to the man" aspect of Napster-- music companies in particular were clinging to an old world view and their response to the rise of the internet was so heavy handed it was easy to root for the pirates.
But for all the thrill of watching the internet give a brief edge to David over Goliath, we can't think that was going to make the world a better place. Saying "it's ok for a mother to steal bread to feed a starving child" can't be the excuse for legalizing theft. And while corporations tend to drain the flavor from everything, all the seedy players and hustlers that dominate the unregulated economies don't necessarily come with moral compasses either.
Lawless rebellions are helpful in overturning an outdated status quo, but only until a new social contract can be established-- and iTunes Music Store was the grounds for that new social contract.
Frankly, I think it was the later iterations that really delivered-- when the DRM was removed and the audio quality was restored. That's really when the two sides came to realize that music had value and customers can be trusted. I've always thought a dollar a song was too high, it made for a marketable round number. The higher prices for DRM free I think was just the compromise that needed to happen so the music industry though they got something in the deal.
In general, I quite agree, but I tend to prefer continuous attacks on the status quo than the status quo itself, especially when the ‘new social contract’ is drawn up between two parties that do not really represent those at stake (the users) but one of them arrogates to the right to represent one, for its own benefit. It is a very commercial way of resolving disputes, and it has never tended to lead too far from wars. It is no coincidence that the truce has lasted for twenty years, thanks also to subscription streaming like Spotify, which, again, represents a very new way (when it was born) to circumvent the old social contract of the iTunes Store making music a continuous flow of news that last the time of a click, for a fee.
Again, users have a marginal role, moving from one self-proclaimed sales representative to another, without a real institutional representative.
Chaos serves systems to renew themselves, there was a time when on the web, one of the most hierarchical and military structures that have ever existed in human history, chaos served to generate the new, for better or for worse. Today simply the web is an old, dead, conquered territory, nothing really chaotic passes from there (but it's normal, it's not the right platform at all). I never expected the world to become a better place, but I still disagree on why that mother has to steal to feed her child, despite overeducing food. It's not a matter of legalising theft, it's a matter of putting a limit on trade, or opening it up completely, if you really believe in the market.