I'll have to think on this more. Maybe that says something about my own values and I'm not sure I'm proud of that.
Strictly speaking, however, does he merely make leisure items? They are being used to in the military, medical field, education field, fire & rescue fields, space exploration and so on. Not to mention the fact that his efforts help keep people in jobs. In a very real way, he helps make it possible for other people to be able to invest more time in *their* families. You begin to see why I don't feel this is so clear cut.
You say he's not defending the country, but I use the devices he designed to help my fellow Soldiers do exactly that. He's not teaching, but our schools are full of iMacs, Macbooks and iPads that help teachers educate children. He's not saving lives but there are first responders all over the US now using Apple devices to help them route their rescue vehicles. Thoughts?