I feel this way also. I really would like to get an iPad "for the family" for Christmas, but something inside keeps telling me to just wait for the updated model that will almost certainly be coming within the next few months. My brother-in-law brought his to the Thanksgiving gathering yesterday and playing around with it certainly didn't make the decision any easier.
I really need to make up my mind by the end of the day so I can at least get the black friday discount if I do go ahead and buy now...Beats not saving any money.
Don't get it. Mind over matter, just wait. It's like buying a new iPhone in April, not worth it. I got mine in June so it was well worth it, but at this point if I didn't have one I would just wait. It may seem like a good idea now but when the new one comes out you will most likely be annoyed even if right now you think you won't be and even if the updates aren't that major. However chances are it will have more ram and will run faster, and you may even get more storage for the same money. And the front facing camera will be coming for sure. So just wait.