Exactly. Lion only adds things I DO NOT WANT, and does not add anything I have wanted AFAIK.
Hell, if apple had bought out the makers of better snap tool and implemented the tech in Lion I would have bought it.
Instead we get bogus consumer toy features like
"dissapearing scroll bars that look like your iphones!"
"full screen, just like your ipad!"
"A new spring board just like your iphones!"
"face time, just like skype!"
"new cool skins on your programs to make them look old fashioned and kitschy!"
Now some actual, verbatim "additions" from the horses mouth:
"Yearless birthdays- You can now add birthdays to your contacts without including a year." GREAT. FINALLY!
"Saves as you go - Apps developed with Auto Save can automatically save changes to your document as you work" THANK GOD. NONE OF MY APPS DO THIS ALREADY. APERTURE DOESNT, NEITHER DOES MS WORD!
"Arrange apps any way you like - You can rearrange apps by dragging their icons to a new location or even to another page." SWEEEEET
Seriously? I'm still laughing at the naysayers who were hating on the predictions that "apple is slowly doing away with their desktop os". Lion is one of the final nails in the coffin.
I found this funny!
"Apple, you have ruined my life many times in our illustrious past, but you're not gonna get away with it this time! Why, you ask? Because I, your favourite customer, will not on this occasion be spending my money (for which you will rue the day) on your rubbish OS ideas. You can fool all the others, but you should know by now Apple, that you can't fool me with your guinea pigging releases...."
Etc...
Meanwhile, while the planet isn't revolving around you, a few users all over the world are enjoying the next generation typewriters and carphones and microwave ovens along with their futuristic and productive, revolutionary priced version of OSX. Mail & iCal alone make this worthwhile, but surely there's more to it than that, right? OR is it really just eye-candy?
Maybe there are fundamentally robust 'things' going on underneath all that just to make life easier and more convenient for people who work on their computers for much of the day. If that's the case then Lion will most probably continue to improve and speed up the workflow for professionals while making it easier for consumer users who also want to be allowed to use the shiny computers. Everybody wins.
And I'm not particularly a fanboy either. There are a few minor bugs as there are with any release - it's not perfect, and some of them are infuriating, but it's nothing like it was with Leopard, and I'm guessing that those things will get fixed as the world keeps turning...
The points you mention and deride are all the beginnings of access points for a universal across platform interface, and it works very well. They are not there to upset you just because you can't or don't want to your head around it.
These forums are full of people stamping their feet and sulking because Apple didn't include an actual Lion in the download, or some such BS. Get over it - take your $30 and buy a ticket to the zoo.