Sorry to be a pest but I really don't want to pay $4 for something I'm going to use once.
I tried going in and finding where it goes myself. I also tried editing the Preferences.plist file but that landed me with no options at all requiring a reinstall so I must ask...
Where do I put this if I want to SSH it in?
Is it a .deb file? If so, do this, it's what I do and it's simple:
How to Install (Method 2) :
SSH your iPhone and go to /var/root/Media/Cydia/AutoInstall Copy the .deb file there and then just reboot your device. If Autoinstall folder is not in /var/root/Media/Cydia then you can create yourself