Thank you. I also found some good info on
https://www.reddit.com/r/headphones/
I am torn between the Jaybird X3 and the BeatsX.
I think I am going to stay away from the airpods, not only are they extremely hard to find (still), I don't think they are what I am looking for, plus the fact there are no physical buttons to change songs or volume up/down makes me a little hesitant.
Tough choice - I was facing the same dilemma when I was looking to purchase. I ended up getting both to use in different instances.
I use the x3s for exercising/gym for two reasons:
1. They are sweat (water) proof
2. You can tune the sound profile to whatever you like. I usually go bass heavy when exercising and it pumps me up makes me go harder at whatever Im doing.
beats x I use for casual listening and conference calls:
1. Beats x are way more comfortable, dont fall out and dont result in listening fatigue
2. Because of the way they sit around your neck the microphone ends up landing right next to your mouth which is ideal for taking/making calls.
For the use cases you described I would get the x3s mainly because they are water proof - what i'd recommend is that you use the comply foam tips with the wings i found this combo to provide the most secure fit and passive noise cancellation.