Obviously you have no real technical abilities or experience in a Windows environment. Since when does time active relate to RAM usage? That's total BS, either you have no real clue what you're talking about or you've been using some real crappy applications that have tons of memory leaks.
2GB of RAM is by far enough for a developer, tech or gamer if you properly configure the OS. I'll admit that your system will run slow under 2GB of RAM if you use Norton and still haven't uninstalled the bloatware your PC came with on 0day (I.e. have no technical knowledge).
Please, for all our sakes save us the BS and keep it technical. I'm running an iBook G4 with 750MB RAM & a PPC 1Ghz processor. With these specs I actively use Firefox with multiple tabs and addons, Adium messaging client, Mail (With PGP decryption actively decrypting mail), iTunes, Kismet and various 3rd party scripts/tools (Such as dashboard widgets, RDC connections & InfoSec tools).
I have a desktop with a Pentium Dual-Core (2GB RAM) & it's running multiple firefox instances (With approx. 100 tabs total), media player classic (watching 24), winamp, MSN, multiple explorer windows, various system utilities, mIRC & a few custom apps. My total system load is 10-15% CPU & 1.15GB RAM usage.
I really have to say I hate the way the consumer market's going, screw it. Let's just throw a few more GB RAM in there, they don't need to know why, how or in what manner it'll affect their system, infact I dont really care even if they do need to know. Let's do it anyway.
It's only helping towards a world of idiotic consumerism and mis-understanding (or perhaps lack of understanding).