well, you guys did ask what i would use my item for, and i replied back.
i know that MOST people on here that are nice and helpful, and i thank them for the help that those people gave me, but with all due respect to those who are telling me that i am rude, you are being equally rude as well. most of your answers were like 'do you NEED this' or ' you are not explaining what you use the device for', i came here to ask for some friendly advice, and this is what i get?? for the billionth time, i would use my device for movies, internet and gaming.
so think twice before you call me rude? and also, i have an iphone 3GS
Firstly, going by that logic, if you tell somebody that they are breaking the law, you are breaking the law also. Being rude and being confrontational are two completely different things - mine was the latter.
Anyway, back on topic, my reason for suggesting the 4S is because your original post stated that you would use the iPad for apps that don't run well on your 3GS. It seems that, unless you need the portability, you already have a desktop you are happy with, and the iPad wouldn't be used for more than apps that you already have.
The iPad is a fantastic interactive device, don't get me wrong. However, if you use your desktop heavily you might find yourself using the iPad much less than you were hoping. The 4S will be much faster than your 3GS, and will do everything that you want to do (from what you have listed).