I'll probably catch flak for this.
I have religiously used Onyx for quite a while after every update major or minor, and in between. In the old days I was a religious Disk Doctor user. I have never had a problem with updates, ever. I have noticed that sometimes updates seem to get faster with use, but I attribute that to the Mac personalities the Mac computers seem to have.
I worked as (amongst being assistant editor and staff masseur, lol) the IT guy for the local newspaper in the mid/late 90s. I noticed then that the Macs reacted to people's emotions. People can laugh but I saw it happen time after time. The editor was hot tempered, and often I could NOT make the computer do what I WATCHED him make it do.
He'd stand there, shaking his head. I'd tell him, just calm down and everything will be OK. The paper was a weekly, and on production day he and the advertising manager would get neck massages, which usually fixed their computer problems.
Anyway, Big Sur loaded glitchlessly, and I really like it on my seven-year old MBP. Safari page loads are instantaneous. Computer and iPhone SE 2020 are intimately connected.