Thoughtful response but I respectfully disagree.
Regardless of your background or membership in any community, claiming that you "hear dog whistles" or know what an anonymous forum member "actually" means in a comment is a fruitless venture, just take them at their typed word or better yet, if you feel someone is veiling some hate ask them what they mean by their comment either publicly or in a private message. I do acknowledge that some people's life experience might make this difficult but anyone who claims to know what another is "really saying" is probably wrong. Isn't falsely labeling someone an -ist or -phobe just as bad as being called a derogatory name yourself?
As an example, one should not have to post a comment like "That watchband is ugly" with the disclaimer of "but I'm not homophobic". One should be taken at their typed word, they don't like one watchband, nothing more implied or intended.
As a trans woman, I see the dog whistles popping up pretty commonly in queer-related stuff on this site and others. Also, as a member of the queer community for 30+ years, we're not seeing something like "Man, that watchband is just ugly. It's too bright/muddled/chaotic/etc" as homo/trans phobic.
I promise you.
What we see more often tho is things like "Oh why is Apple doing this/supporting f-slurs??" Or "Why can't we have straight/white/cis Pride Month", or my personal favorites, ad hominem like misgendering. There's also fun dogwhistles ranging from suicide rates to trans athletes, in forums not even discussing those things.
I've been involved in PSRI discussions here where people have made blatant anti-trans comments and at best they got a time out, before the end of the week they were back at it again.
All of this said, I just want to know why my existence as a person is so heavily regulated and politicized in my country (the US) and this site. There's no way I could make a queer artists of MR thread, to queer collectors of MR, and not have it either locked or moved to PSRI or both.