I gave up and setup a Gmail IMAP account with my hotmail account forwarded to it. Works great, everything syncs properly on Web, Mac & iPhone.
Same with calendar.
Yeah, I got pissed too... then I also tweaked Mail's checking mail every 15 mins or more (I had it at every 5) in General Preferences; and finally looks like it fixed it. Hope this helps!
I gave up and setup a Gmail IMAP account with my hotmail account forwarded to it. Works great, everything syncs properly on Web, Mac & iPhone.
Same with calendar.