Right. Some people are kind of missing the point, but their input is still appreciated.
This has nothing to do with confidence, or being happy with yourself, or whatever. It has everything to do with enjoying having hair and the feeling that I'd rather NOT be bald if I can help it. It is worth it to fight for my hair, even if it is probably hopeless.
That said, I wouldn't mind being bald if the things I try do not work, but I'm not just going to "embrace it". I wouldn't mind gaining 20 or 30 extra pounds if I was eating right and exercising, but if I just sat on my ass and got fat I wouldn't embrace that either. I'd at least try to do something about it.