macartistkel said:Yeah, thats what I kept saying, and then one day out of the blue (and just a week before I thought I wanted to break up because he was getting on my nerves so bad and I thought the relationship wasn't going anywhere), I look at him across the table and I just "get it". And what I mean by that is I finally SEE how much I really care for this person and it scared me that I could love someone so much--more than myself! It scared me because all of a sudden I realized how worried I am about anything bad ever happening to them and also worried about the possibility of becoming heartbroken if I lost them(which has happened as well). That is how I was hit with the feeling of love--TWICE. It is not something that can really be predicted or forced in my opinion. It happens when it happens and there is NO stopping it--even when you thought you didn't care!![]()
Oh, it's definitely a scary feeling the first time you realize you've met someone you care so much you put them before yourself. It's so new and makes you feel almost vulnerable. However, it doesn't mean you always remember that you're willing to do that. It breaks my heart everytime I've found myself forgetting that fact and in some way hurting the man I love. Even after he's forgiven me for whatever it was I said or did, it's the hardest thing to do to learn to forgive myself for having done it.