Nope, but I might be trying to give you money.Are you trying to be my friend?
Maybe.
Nope, but I might be trying to give you money.Are you trying to be my friend?
I believe such a quid pro quo arrangement is recognized as prostitution.Nope, but I might be trying to give you money.
Maybe.
Mate, if your laughing wakes your wife up, you're not getting the quid pro quo type of deal you think you'll get. A smack upside your head, sure.Guys, I can't help laughing here.
It will wake my wife...
Talk about quid pro quo...
Nah, I am not into BDSM.Mate, if your laughing wakes your wife up, you're not getting the quid pro quo type of deal you think you'll get. A smack upside your head, sure.
I'm probably about £500+ out of pocket because of various people, but hey at least you can work out who to trust.
No more lending anything. Sad but I have been messed about too much.
Wasn't referring to the tiny head.Nah, I am not into BDSM.
I borrowed a considerable sum from my father years ago. I've paid that borrowed amount back several times over. It isn't like they need the money, but it's a way of saying thank you for believing in me.
I would lend money without expectation of getting paid back to immediate family, even extending to my nieces and nephews. Anyone else and I simply wouldn't. I think this is a better answer than my original one if I posted one. I don't remember and am too lazy to check.
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Wasn't referring to the tiny head.
Of course, you were not. As for tiny heads you have to look somewhere else.I borrowed a considerable sum from my father years ago. I've paid that borrowed amount back several times over. It isn't like they need the money, but it's a way of saying thank you for believing in me.
I would lend money without expectation of getting paid back to immediate family, even extending to my nieces and nephews. Anyone else and I simply wouldn't. I think this is a better answer than my original one if I posted one. I don't remember and am too lazy to check.
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Wasn't referring to the tiny head.
If you were to write that up as a step-by-step plan and publish it on Amazon, I'd buy a copy.
Maybe.
In my opinion, the reason you are angry, frustrated or whatever label you wish to attach is because you had (and still have) the wrong mindset about giving.
if you're determined to be transactional about everything, go for it but probably don't transact "loans" with kin or friends
I am not being transactional about everything. I gave/lent people $20, $50 and even $100 i lost how many times but its not a big deal , it made me feel good helping others.
My hat's off to you....Life is not about keeping tabs and making sure every interaction you have with someone is balanced on both sides of the proverbial equation.
A lot of times people get angry with each other, because person A doesn't say or act in a way person B expects them to. And it is the wrongful projection of expectation that is often at the root of anger and resentment.
You can't control what other people do... If the recipient of the gift dishonors the gift and the spirit it was given, that doesn't make the gift any less meaningful or merited.
I have given people (not related to me in any way) several thousands of dollars over the years, along with some physical items where some were important to me,
I’ve never borrowed food from anyone. It’s hard to give back! To be honest we never run out of anything. If we did I’d just go to the local shop.Here in Australia its extremely rare to ask neighbors to borrow anything , never done it anyway.
Where i came from its normal to grab bread, salt, suger, milk etc..etc... from your neighbors. Very common.
Probably more normal in the country than it is in the suburbs or a small village/town. I tend to buy things in bulk, like a 20 kg bag of sugar instead of the small bags. It's a ballache to be in the middle of a recipe and realize you haven't got something on hand.I’ve never borrowed food from anyone. It’s hard to give back! To be honest we never run out of anything. If we did I’d just go to the local shop.
Mrs AFB buys everything in bulk. I sometimes wonder if she’s a preper getting ready for the zombie apocalypse!Probably more normal in the country than it is in the suburbs or a small village/town. I tend to buy things in bulk, like a 20 kg bag of sugar instead of the small bags. It's a ballache to be in the middle of a recipe and realize you haven't got something on hand.
Nah, doubt it. Preppers are a weird bunch. Nice people, but when they get onto the prepper stuff you wonder about their mental health. Though there's various range of preppers. Most common I've come across are people who live in areas where natural disaster strikes often and it makes sense to be prepared. Others think a nuclear blast will occur.Mrs AFB buys everything in bulk. I sometimes wonder if she’s a preper getting ready for the zombie apocalypse!