UPDATE
Oh boy.... So I called Fedex this morning to figure out what is going on with my package (Mac Mini) and was told that according to their records the mini has not even been picked up yet by Fedex (which is clearly a contradiction to what Apple has emailed me and told me on the phone this past Monday). Fedex told me to call Apple. So I called Apple (and was on hold for 30+ mi nutes) only to have them tell me that Fedex's website is not always accurate and that I should wait until the end of the day since I am supposed to receive my mini... I was not happy with this response from Apple. How the heck is Fedex supposed to deliver a package that they do not have scanned into their system? Anyway, the Sherlock at Apple told me that I have to wait until 8pm tonight before they can put a "tracer" on the pacage to determine where it is.. If there is a mistake, Apple will overnight a package to me. When I asked him when I can expect my mini if it is overnighted, he told me I would most likely not get it until Tuesday or Wednesday of next week since it is a custom build and that they will need 1-3 business days to prepare it for shipment.. When I asked Sherlock why does it take 3 days to put a stick of RAM into a computer at the assembly line he could not answer..
Anyway, I really hope the Apple customer care person was right and that Fedex is the problem here. But my gut tells me that I will be calling Apple tonight and demand that I have my mini delivered on or before Saturday since this was clearly their mistake. The fact that I called them this past Monday about the status of the order and them telling me that it was shipped will infuriate me if they come back and tell me that it was never shipped...
Sorry for the rant.. Not a good beginning from somebody making their first switch to Mac....