@OP: I was not calling you a liar, but you must admit it does seem odd that battery acid on the iPhone side did not also corrode the connector on the cable side. Like I said before, your phone might have been exposed to moisture without your knowledge. I suppose another alternative is that during the manufacturing process the connector on the phone was exposed to flux that was not removed.
In any case, I think we'd all agree that the important thing is that you weren't injured and the phone was replaced.
EDIT: My expertise: PhD in neuroscience, in which I deal with a lot of electronic components in neurophysiological implants that are potentially exposed to salty (and therefore corrosive) body fluids...
If you look at the pictures you'll see it has corrosion on the cable side as well? I do see it..