You're wrong. Fixed it for you.
Duck Duck Go is your friend... Fixed it for you, again. Google is never your friend.
I did do some searches. I have a Surface Pro laptop. I don't find the same number of complaints against the Surface products regarding memory costs as I find on this platform. Apple people seem to be more vocal because, well, because, I have no answer.
If you don't like the Apple memory configuration, vote with your wallet. Apple is not a monopoly. Apple is not forcing you to buy their products. Buy something else and be happy rather getting riled up over something in which you have a choice.
The ones I feel sorry for are the ones buying the Windows systems with 4GB of memory, 128 GB SSD and running Windows in S mode. But, hey, it is their choice. If it makes them happy, fulfills their needs, good for them. A surprising number of people do just fine with these systems. I may feel sorry for them, but I am not one to tell them they made a mistake.