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5/6 of the OP's lifetime posts are in this thread.

Hm. Food for thought. 5/6 of the total, eh?

But then, the approach of the New Year is often an occasion for some food for thought, as the dying, dog days of the Old Year and temporary suspension of time and normal routines (work and life) tend to give one pause and allow one room to think and ponder, and muse, mull over things.

I have noticed that quite a number of people do some serious thinking over the period of the Christmas break, and return to work to hand in their notice, realising that they wanted to do other things with their life.

However, it is a tad unusual to have come to the same conclusion after only half a day's work; usually, people take some months, or years, to arrive at this conclusion when they have come to realise that the thought of returning to that place of work is just too depressing to contemplate for a minute longer, whereupon they hand in their notice immediately on their first day back at work.
 
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I'm not being sarcastic when I ask you what will I learn? I'm being serious.

I'm not sure what will I learn from being a lot tech. Have you been a lot tech before?

At the minimum, you'll hopefully learn to grow a pair of balls, and admit that you did something wrong, and own up to it.

You will never get out of entry level positions if you just quit like you do, and then lie about it.

Your main issue seems to be of character, and willingness to stick it out.
Good things happen to those that don't give up, work hard and have a positive attitude.

-t
 
I wish I could convey the seriousness and sincerity that I mean when I say this, but simply typing it out will have to do:

Please do your employer a favor and quit the job. Based on your posts, you sound to me like you have a terrible work ethic, if any at all. An employer deserves better.

The reality is, EVERYBODY hates entry level jobs. Most people work their way up from them and move on to something else rather than complain about how such an opportunity wasn't simply given to them.

Sure, you can go to school to get skills, but that's not going to replace the fact that when you go to work, you're going to start at the bottom and be expected to work your way up.

QFT.

Yup. Sounds like this guy walked in for the interview and when they asked "What job would you like?", he answered "Is the Vice President position open?"
Bottom line - if you have no skills, you are going to get a job that requires no skills. Stop trying to fast track yourself to a position that you don't deserve.
Also, I have a feeling OP will never be seen again in this thread.
 
I think the OP's handle pretty much sums up the probable outcome at his job when he doesn't produce a doctors note......

KERPLUNK
 
What is your ultimate goal? What skills would a lot tech position give you that will help you reach that goal? Did you get a college degree? If so, in what?

I was also VERY frustrated when looking for a job. I found MANY places had "entry level" positions but required experience to get them. WTH is an "entry level" position that requires EXPERIENCE?

I once took a job in a retail computer store (a franchise of a national chain that isn't well known) as a sales person with the prospect of becoming a tech. I am in NO way a sales person. They let me go a month later because I wasn't performing to their expectations. I was VERY glad I hadn't completely left my previous job, they were able to slip me right back into the schedule.

Thanks for your feedback.

I'm back. Long story short. I did call my former boss and came clean. He appreciated the honesty. But he let me go. Lesson very much learned. I vow NEVER to do that again.

Thank you all for the "tough love" advice.

I don't mind getting an entry level job. It's just that I wanted to get promoted. I don't want to be in a dead end job. I have been a temp a while ago and I saw a lot of grown men older than myself training me. They have been with the company a long time but they are doing the same work I'm doing.

I have mistakes in my past and I know it's because of those decisions I have made is the situation I'm in. I just want to get out of doing warehouse jobs. But don't know what other entry level positions I can do. If I could go back in time and knock some sense in my younger self I would do that in a heartbeat.I will tell my younger self to go to college right after high school. But I can't. Now I am trying to get my head out of my ass and be successful.

I dream of being my own boss one day. But I don't know where to start.

I have always wanted to talk to people that don't have a degree but still are successful. I would love to interview them.

Right now getting ready to go to a staffing agency. I don't want to. But I have no choice. Bills are piling up. They will ask me what kind of jobs are you looking for? I will say entry level jobs. They will probably stick me doing warehouse.

Also FYI I'm going to school right now. Doing the online community college right now. Got good grades in all of my classes.
 
The fact that you have to ask for help on a forum should be enough for you to realize that you need help.

You are 30 and lied to your boss on your FIRST DAY of work.

Despite this decision..... I have a question.
What made you take the job in the first place? You said that you "can't learn certain skills".

People would love to be in your position of landing a decent paying job, and then having the "option" to just up and leave.
 
Thanks for your feedback.

I'm back. Long story short. I did call my former boss and came clean. He appreciated the honesty. But he let me go. Lesson very much learned. I vow NEVER to do that again.

Thank you all for the "tough love" advice.

I don't mind getting an entry level job. It's just that I wanted to get promoted. I don't want to be in a dead end job. I have been a temp a while ago and I saw a lot of grown men older than myself training me. They have been with the company a long time but they are doing the same work I'm doing.

I have mistakes in my past and I know it's because of those decisions I have made is the situation I'm in. I just want to get out of doing warehouse jobs. But don't know what other entry level positions I can do. If I could go back in time and knock some sense in my younger self I would do that in a heartbeat.I will tell my younger self to go to college right after high school. But I can't. Now I am trying to get my head out of my ass and be successful.

I dream of being my own boss one day. But I don't know where to start.

I have always wanted to talk to people that don't have a degree but still are successful. I would love to interview them.

Right now getting ready to go to a staffing agency. I don't want to. But I have no choice. Bills are piling up. They will ask me what kind of jobs are you looking for? I will say entry level jobs. They will probably stick me doing warehouse.

Also FYI I'm going to school right now. Doing the online community college right now. Got good grades in all of my classes.

Well, while I am sorry for you and this outcome, I cannot say that I am all that surprised.

However, I am somewhat surprised that with your dismissal there have now been three employees who were unable to remain in this position - however well paid - for more than a day.

Nevertheless, unfortunate though the immediate outcome was, I think you did the right thing in owning up; try not to pull that one again, especially on your first day in a new job. Seriously, it doesn't look good, especially if you are caught. Besides, relationships built on lies rarely last and can never be based on mutual trust or respect.

Re your future, you have to ask yourself what exactly it is - or the sort of thing you like to do - that you would like to work at and get paid for; what would you find fulfilling, or interesting? What interest or hobby, can you turn into a job or a salary, even if part-time?

Community college is a good start, and I suggest that you keep working at it so that your grades - which you say are good - remain at that level, which will give you confidence, doe qualifications, and prove to yourself that you can learn and stick with something once you have started.

Meanwhile, good luck.

 
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I dream of being my own boss one day. But I don't know where to start.
No one is their own boss simply for the sake of being their own boss.

Every person I know who's self-employed or a business owner is doing something. The fact that they're their own boss is simply a part of the something they're doing.

What is the something you want to do? If you don't know, then "being your own boss" is putting the cart so far before the horse you'd have to walk him a couple furlongs to even get there.


Right now getting ready to go to a staffing agency. I don't want to. But I have no choice. Bills are piling up. They will ask me what kind of jobs are you looking for? I will say entry level jobs. They will probably stick me doing warehouse.
If that happens, at least do your best at it. Forget about going back in time and knocking some sense into your younger self. Knock some sense into your current self, so your future self doesn't have the same regrets 6 months from now.

If you're analytically minded, pay attention to how things are done, and write down ideas on how things could be improved (but make sure you completely understand how a thing is done). Be sure to make clear observations and follow logical processes to conclusions, rather than just making unsubstantiated opinions. Your writing skills in your posts so far are decently clear, so you have that going for you.

On the other hand, maybe the warehouse operation is already a model of efficiency. If so, pay attention to how they do things, so you understand the whys behind the hows. Being able to see whys when only shown hows is a skill not everyone can do.

If you're not analytical and more interpersonal, cultivate relationships with everyone. Be friendly but businesslike. Adapt to them instead of trying to change them.

Also FYI I'm going to school right now. Doing the online community college right now. Got good grades in all of my classes.
What subjects do you like the best? Maybe that will give some idea of what you should be doing.

Or talk to a career guidance counselor, and see if they have some suggestions on what you can do. Part of their job is helping students figure out the best thing to do. Google career aptitude testing, and read up on what guidance services your community college offers.

Also pay attention to the subjects you like least, and how you deal with them. When I was in school my study skills sucked for things I wasn't interested in, and I basically blew off classes I disliked. Enough so that I had to take them over, and think of mental approaches I could apply to at least get through the subject.

"Gamification" was one approach that helped me, although it wasn't called that at the time. In essence, I had to learn the subject material and its meta-structure well enough to be able to think about how to design a game (software or board game) that would present the material in an engaging way. For example, in history I'd make up both role-playing and strategy games (like DnD, but not fantasy), where I'd write up questions, situations, etc. as my way to cover the study material.

If it's not obvious, I'm a software developer right now (self-employed free-lance contractor), but I also do hardware design (where my degree is), and on some projects I do both things.
 
Thanks for your feedback.

I'm back. Long story short. I did call my former boss and came clean. He appreciated the honesty. But he let me go. Lesson very much learned. I vow NEVER to do that again.
I'm sorry to hear that, but kudos for being honest and responsible. Take this as they say as a life lesson. Also take this perhaps a message to figure out really what you want to do in life.
 
Also FYI I'm going to school right now. Doing the online community college right now. Got good grades in all of my classes.

That's good to hear. I'd make an effort to attend face-to-face classroom sessions if at all possible. Online learning is great, but I learn so much more (not always course-related) from the others in the room.

Hang in there. It's never easy. If it was, everybody would be doing it :)
 
Thanks for your feedback.

I'm back. Long story short. I did call my former boss and came clean. He appreciated the honesty. But he let me go. Lesson very much learned. I vow NEVER to do that again.

Sorry to hear that. But, that is a consequence of your actions. As already mentioned, take it as a life lesson and move forward from here.
 
You're right. But I'm so tired of working these entry level jobs. I would rather get low pay for a job that will give me skills then a higher paying job that is a dead end job that someone that just graduated from high school gets hired on.

Oh by the way. I am ALWAYS honest and up front. I just didn't care about the job and was thinking that I will never see these people again.

Part of being responsible is to be upfront and honest no matter what the job. Maybe if you were responsible and upfront you'd get jobs that are better than entry level. Me, as a supervisor, I might not fire you, but I would never give you any responsibility.

Guy appears on MR for this first time with some pathetic life story? It's my considered opinion that this thread is an absolute load of bolshevik.

Yup. This belongs in wasteland at best.
 
What makes you think that?

I’ve seen these individuals in other forums. They appear out of nowhere, whining about their inadequacies and their miserable lives. Often, their wretchedness seems calculated to arouse maximum contempt in other forum members. They troll people for while and then disappear forever.

I honestly believe it’s psychological; some variety of Internet-masochist fetish perhaps. I don't believe any of it is actually true.
 
Well, since you want to learn new skills you can do the following:

A) you started with a lie, so finish with one
B) come clean

This way, you'll either learn to follow through with what you start or some accountability.

Where do you live that $12 per hour is good pay?
 
I’ve seen these individuals in other forums. They appear out of nowhere, whining about their inadequacies and their miserable lives. Often, their wretchedness seems calculated to arouse maximum contempt in other forum members. They troll people for while and then disappear forever.

I honestly believe it’s psychological; some variety of Internet-masochist fetish perhaps. I don't believe any of it is actually true.

Yeah, I know what you mean, but I don't think the OP is one of them. Or if he is, then it's very subtly done.

In any case, I tend to give newbies the benefit of the doubt and answer in good faith. I'd rather do that and be proved wrong than just assume everyone new has a personality disorder. :)

Having said that, there are a few who predominantly hang out in PRSI and genuinely appear to get off on having others hate on them. It seems to energize them. Very odd. Probably had a damaged childhood, but want to get back to that emotional state since that's what they're comfortable with?

I find that very unhealthy and actively avoid engaging with them.
 
Guy appears on MR for this first time with some pathetic life story? It's my considered opinion that this thread is an absolute load of bolshevik.

Part of being responsible is to be upfront and honest no matter what the job. Maybe if you were responsible and upfront you'd get jobs that are better than entry level. Me, as a supervisor, I might not fire you, but I would never give you any responsibility.



Yup. This belongs in wasteland at best.

I’ve seen these individuals in other forums. They appear out of nowhere, whining about their inadequacies and their miserable lives. Often, their wretchedness seems calculated to arouse maximum contempt in other forum members. They troll people for while and then disappear forever.

I honestly believe it’s psychological; some variety of Internet-masochist fetish perhaps. I don't believe any of it is actually true.

I used to think that, when readings threads such as this. It used to baffle me, that people would write about such personal and strange stuff to an online audience of complete strangers whom they have never met, and most of whom they never expect to meet.

But then, I realised that this is what much social media is about. Granted, I still find much of it baffling, as I cannot conceive of a life without strongly defined boundaries, a place where the public space and the private space are clearly fenced off from one another.

However, many of the youngsters with whom we - or, I - interact on a regular basis on these fora do not possess any sense of the private space, or of the need to preserve personal privacy, and have grown up with a world of social media where running a commentary on your own life story on social media is considered perfectly normal, and even desirable.

Hence, while it may indeed be 'psychological', I don't doubt for one minute that it is true. This extraordinary narcissistic obsession with the minutiae of one's personal life - and the concomitant belief that the world will be as equally absorbed by arcane details of your private life as you are - a belief, unfortunately reinforced by much social media - and that you are somehow less real and matter less if you do not discuss such matters online in a public forum, seems to be a common one among amongst the social media literate generation.


Yeah, I know what you mean, but I don't think the OP is one of them. Or if he is, then it's very subtly done.

In any case, I tend to give newbies the benefit of the doubt and answer in good faith. I'd rather do that and be proved wrong than just assume everyone new has a personality disorder. :)

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I find that very unhealthy and actively avoid engaging with them.

Broadly speaking, I agree with you on this.
 
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