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  1. macbook pro i5 macrumors 65816

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    Ok there is this girl and she is my friend and she knows a lot about me in-fact she even found out i like her now she sounds like she is flirting with me but i don't.So anyway any idea how to catch her eye get her closer?
     
  2. pvmacguy macrumors 65816

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    Example on how you think she is flirting with you?
     
  3. daneoni macrumors G4

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    Is she really flirting or you're just hoping she is...or worse...is she just toying with you now that she knows she has you hooked?
     
  4. macbook pro i5 thread starter macrumors 65816

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    No she is not that type of girl.

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    Well she is continuously "bumping" into me she has started texting me much much more then usual now I am confused:confused: .On top of that she always comes to me gives me more hugs and asks how many pushups i did today you know.
     
  5. BreakGuy macrumors 6502a

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    Do you like her? Flirt back a little bit and see if she bites the hook. If she does, ask her out.
     
  6. macbook pro i5 thread starter macrumors 65816

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    Oh i like her alright I'm singing "The man who can't be moved" for her:)

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    Just wanted to add i have no prior experience in relationships.
     
  7. Arkious macrumors 6502a

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    this sounds like a farmilliar story... now were engaged xD

    go with the flow, dont try forcing anything. if you have known her for so long, she will know if somthing changes about you and if she does like you, she likes you for the person you always have been.
     
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    I'm just hoping singing "The man who cant be moved will get her when it comes to the part "how can I move on when I'm still in love with you"I plan on giving her a rose.
     
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    Ask a friend to ask her if she likes you.

    /end middle school mindset
     
  10. Arkious macrumors 6502a

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    you have to love the extents you go to for a girl you have liked for so long! :)
     
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    Whats middle school I live in NZ i don't know Americas schooling standard.Is it college?

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  12. Hastings101 macrumors 68000

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    So, how many pushups did you do?
     
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    i normally do hundred Pushups per day have to but oh well at least it lets me keep that sexy masculine physique :D
     
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    Ask her out. If you keep txting back and forth with her, odds are you're going to end up one of her "girlfriends."

    Btw, all girls are "that type of girl." Same goes for guys. If they flirt with you and get your attention, they will continue to do it even if nothing happens and they lose interest in taking it further and move on to other, newer prospects. It's just human nature.
     
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    So i guess its confirmed Im asking her out in front of the whole college after i sing the whole song.
     
  16. Theclamshell macrumors 68030

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    Ask her out in private not public. Putting that kind of pressure on someone in a public can end very poorly.
     
  17. mobilehaathi macrumors G3

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    Ask your BFF to ask her BFF if she like likes you!
     
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    See this is where it gets akward my best friend likes her best friend and will not even get close to her without breaking down into a nervous wreck:D although i shouldn't laugh at him considering my own leg starts twitching when i see her.And by her i mean the girl that i like.
     
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    Can I ask how old you all are? Just trying to understand the broader context. Do you all go to school together?
     
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    I'm 14 and yes we all go to same school same class.
     
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    Do not, under any circumstances, do this.

    And rent the movie Hitch. ASAP.
     
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    Can i still give her the rose in front of the college while singing "How can i move on when i am still in love with you"
     
  23. Hastings101 macrumors 68000

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    I think I'm falling in love with you over the Internet you hopeless romantic you.
     
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    hahhahaha lol thanks:D
     
  25. mobilehaathi macrumors G3

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    I really don't think asking her out in a high pressure situation is a good idea. If she is being flirty with you, just go for it in a more private low pressure setting. You all are young and have very little to lose!

    Just don't do it in front of the whole school. But that is just my advice. ;)
     
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