Sorry this is so long and babbling. I just need some help here. So I met my current boyfriend on an online dating site about 3 months ago. Things have been going well, i have a toothbrush and brush at his place along with a few other things he seems perfectly happy having there (he gave me the toothbrush and assured me it was ok for all that other stuff) he messages me a hello or goodmorning at work usually once a day, or 50/50 between us. And we usually talk once a day on the phone for about 10 min.. mostly he calls me when he's done with work since he works till like 7 or so regularly. He met my parents last weekend, which went well, they loved him and he even assured me saturday that they didn't scare him off and he wasn't going anywhere. He even gave my mom his number when she asked to have it incase she couldnt' reach me for a few days and worried. He mentioned that this outlet mall we were talking about would be a good way for me to meet his mom. etc. (his parents live 5 min away from him) However that was saturday on the drive back.... saturday afternoon he talked about things we could do together later etc. BUT he also said he could get his mom to make more foodand i could meet them sunday, but like 2 seconds later he renigged and wa slike "hm maybe next weekend" like he realized he made a mistake... I got a little weird and then sunday night and last night he ignored my calls and this morning basically just said "sorry, busy tired headachey sometimes i just want to veg, hope you understand" but.. it's verymuch not like him to ignore my calls. and it was only 1 each night and i didn't get upset or mad.. but it's just been weird. He does own his own business witha partner though so he works a lot, i understand, and i never wanted to be one of those clingy girls. I just find it weird that he just started ignoring calls 2 days in the last 3... He also didn't want me to tag photos of him on FB or whatnot.. because he "doesnt' like when people know things about him he doesn't tell them" so he made a note to take down the tags and such.. and a post on his wall I made about him liking me and some inside joke... I mean.. it feels like he's hiding me now in that respect, but then again he has told his parents about me and his friends supposedly...( i haven't met any of them.. i have heard him use my name to one friend though on the phone) so maybe that's just a weird quirk of his... and he has no other photos up there either.... I know i'm probably overthinking things, but I am worried i might have freaked him out in the matter of the last few days... So, I guess, would a guy change his mind that fast? from saturday when he was talking about things to do together and ways to meet his parents and even asking what i was thinking as far as schedule for the vacation we were tlaking about taking? to now where I just feel like he's completely gone distant and is hiding me. He did make sure to ask me if i was ok with him sharing aroom (he has aconvention for a week in april) with his ex (an ex from like 5 years ago who is with someone else and practically engaged) because it saves him 1200 bucks to do it etc etc ... so he was thinking about me and how i'd react so that's a good sign i guess too... He said he is always nice about it for breakups and told me about some of his exs before, and how he pulls away and all that, so certain things like that worry me, he would be nice about it the whole way through, he's not the type to be clear and just stop talking to me and be a jerk... I just have this gut feeling that something is wrong insight anyone? And he still goes on match (wasn't on for like a month.. and then just 2 weeks ago started going on almost everyday again) says he isn't messaging anyone.. fine I guess, he paid for it, and guys like to make sure htey know they made the right choice etc.. but he could hide himself, or idunno, it just seems weird. Insight from guys is useful here, am i just freaking out needlessly because he's having a distant and busy few days or could he have changed his mind that quickly? He's 32 and i'm 24 if that matters. we live an hour apart.