Need suggestion: Nice thing to do for boyfriend who is SUPER stressed?

[iJohnHenry]

Nice touch remembering his pets. Excellent.

 

[ikermalli]

umm because he would feel like he's ignoring me if I go visit randomly. He already canceled plans because he has too much work... and wasn't very happy about it.

I dont' want to make him more stressed then he already is. The idea is to be helpful/sweet without making him feel like i'm adding something else to worry about!

I mean yes.. I could drive a bit over an hour pick up food, give it to him, give him a hug and leave... but i feel like he'd still feel bad that I drove all that way back and forth just for that.

Give him more than a hug, chill with him for a bit

 

[0098386]

Massage, film, good food, breakfast in bed and/or morning funtimes.

 

[iJohnHenry]

Time is of the essence right now, and the last 2 posts do not allow for that problem.

Just saying.

 

[eldy]

fellate him.

 

[FrankieTDouglas]

umm because he would feel like he's ignoring me if I go visit randomly. He already canceled plans because he has too much work... and wasn't very happy about it.

I dont' want to make him more stressed then he already is. The idea is to be helpful/sweet without making him feel like i'm adding something else to worry about!

I mean yes.. I could drive a bit over an hour pick up food, give it to him, give him a hug and leave... but i feel like he'd still feel bad that I drove all that way back and forth just for that.

So it wasn't that an hour was too far? More that you didn't want him to have to ignore you?

Why give a hug and leave? Go there, have some food, and if he's busy dealing with paperwork, give him a BJ while he works. That makes any process better. Seriously. It's that easy with guys.

 

[charlesbronsen]

I actually decided to go with the care package.

how very nice and thoughtful of you

Originally Posted by ktbubster

I dont' want to make him more stressed then he already is. The idea is to be helpful/sweet without making him feel like i'm adding something else to worry about!

seems like you have to walk on eggshells with this fella...

He is the kind of guy who doesn't really want me there while he works... I mean, if I am there and have something to work on myself he's happy about it, because he doesn't feel like he's ignoring me, but that defeats the point in this case! otherwise he feels bad and probably more stressed.

that sounds a little funny to me.

 

[0098386]

how very nice and thoughtful of you


seems like you have to walk on eggshells with this fella...


that sounds a little funny to me.

I have to agree with all this.

 

[wfoster]

I know you've already solved your problem but another easy solution would be buying him a MacBook for his business work.

 

[fartheststar]

I have to agree with all this.

Me too. Kind of odd. I would be happy to have you over if you were my girl and you were far away. Even if I had to work, it would be nice knowing you're there.

I agree with the previous poster - you shouldn't feel like you're walking around on eggshells, and he should participate in the relationship the same amount / effort as you.

Hope it's going well still!

 

[iJohnHenry]

Has he still not got his rocks off???

Perhaps a Fleshlight, with your name engraved on the side, might relieve his "stress".

 

[Ttownbeast]

Steak dinner and a BJ

I totally agree, you can never go wrong giving a guy at least one or both of these things.

 

[t0mat0]

Always wise not to forget March 14th...
Or for that matter, April 14...