Correct me if I am wrong, but isn’t it harder to qualify for family sharing? I know I am not going to link Apple IDs with my friend just for this, so the likely answer is that it’s simply harder to abuse the sharing of Apple accounts in such a manner.
No, you're right, if you look at it from the point of view of eligibility, Apple's Family Sharing is a little harder to get, after all, the basic requirement is an apple id, but to some extent I think that's a 'relatively reasonable' way to filter it, it's the minimum requirement of the Apple ecosystem.
In addition, my Apple family shares members: my mom, my brother, and my girlfriend. Strictly speaking, my girlfriend should not be considered family, but in fact, she can share, and Apple does not ask.
And Apple's hands-off behavior is perfectly in line with people's perception and expectations of "sharing.
But Netflix currently has a "unique and great" vision of sharing. In fact, I would rather remove the literal meaning of 'family' from Netflix. Like Apple's Family Sharing, we think of it as a resource that is simply paid for by the user and shared with legitimate or designated people, and that's it.
It doesn't matter if those people are family or friends or anyone else, as long as they are allowed by the entity providing the service or the number of people.
What Netflix is doing, obviously, is removing the concept of "free sharing" for others (which is not really free) and adding a policy of "paid sharing" for others. This policy comes from the traditional "breed, bind, harvest" trap.
Apple could have done the same thing, for example, by claiming that people who share must pay a certain amount of money to use apple music or apple tv or apps shared by others... And so on, but Apple doesn't do that, even though Apple could.
But if Apple did, it would face the same criticism that Netflix is facing today, because that's a completely different point of departure than the first, it's pure greed, that's my opinion.
Also, how do abuse sharing? The rules of the game are provided by the service, and as mentioned, my Apple Family Share has my girlfriend on it, is that an abuse?
If someone insists on claiming that a dog is also his family and he insists on adding that dog to the family sharing program, I have no doubt that they will probably file a lawsuit over it.
So, from Apple's point of view, they focus on the act of 'sharing' rather than on 'how to define who to share with', and even though the sharing program has the term 'family' in it, Apple doesn't even ask.
By the same token, if I remove the word 'family' from Netflix's sharing plan, we'll assume that it's just a requirement that several screens can be turned on at the same time, and it'll be much simpler, but apparently Netflix doesn't want to make it that simple, and they seem to think there's room for profit in this 'simple act'.
I wouldn't say Netflix is wrong, they have the right to change their policy, even the definition, but they will conceivably be subject to strong criticism and unsubscribes.