OK, more info...
Yeah so.
I sent a letter to Steve Jobs' office a week ago and got a call back today.
Apparently, Apple's policy HAS changed and I stated it correctly. The reason they're now refusing to release packages over the counter at FedEx offices is that some offices have been failing to check ID and machines have been going missing.
However, there are two details. First, the Apple shipping department is adamant that a limited or full signature release waiver should apply to their packages, contrary to what the FedEx reps told me, and the rep from Apple promised to confirm with FedEx that this was OK.
Second, they said that in a particular instance, contrary to what Apple's shipping rep told me, Apple WILL provide a waiver permitting me to pick up a package over the counter at the FedEx office. This requires calling Apple's "dispatch" department and requesting that they fax me a form that I then carry to the FedEx office. Apparently not everyone in the dispatch group knows about this form, however.
The number for Apple's dispatch department is 800-320-3728.
So, as I said earlier, this is all a big pain in the ass, however it is not the strict Catch-22 that I described in my first post.
OK, so who's willing to pay an extra $20 for their Apple products so that Apple won't force these requirements on the rest of us? 😀
-- Mark