Agreed. I dislike quite a lot of what Apple does too.
This is one point where you need to give Apple some credit. Yes, phones like the X1 (and a few high-end Japanese phones) have very high DPI displays, but the X1 still is only 480x800, whereas the iPhone 4 is significantly higher resolution than anything available in the west and is still higher resolution than most of the products NOT YET released! The Retina Display is impressive today and will be awesome for another year. Motorola reused the same 3.7" LCD on the Droid 2/Milestone 2/Droid 2 Global that was on the original Droid Milestone (which I own) because it is still, even today, a fantastic display with the highest contrast and most accurate colors of any mobile LCD --yet, in many ways, I think that the Retina Display is superior because of its sharpness and resolution. Even a new Japanese phone like the
Aquos 941 with 480x1024 resolution has few pixels than the iP4.
The 4 isn't old tech yet. There is still not another phone on the market that clearly beats it in hardware. The Nexus S definitely does not because it has an inferior screen (pentile matrix crap), arguably worse camera (depends on whom you ask), and basically the equivalent everything else. The next quarter, when Moto/HTC/LG/Samsung release their next Android/WP7 phones, the iP4 will be behind, but right now, it's no worse than any other model.