Haha .. yeah OP's post seems a bit ridiculous, getting angry for not having the sophisticated SIM ejector tool on brand new iPhone 4S box
But yeah, I understand the confusion, it maybe noticeable change since iPhone 4 package still include it.
I got my unlocked 4S from eBay, and yes it was wrapped and brand new, but the seller gave me a paperclip along with the package. Was I confused, SIM ejector wasn't there, apparently it's not given anymore, I thought the box was prayed open or something despite being brand new. Fortunately I was wrong, no iPaperclip included by default, so ... no problem.
Well yeah .. albeit small and nothing too important, but sim ejector tool is not included on iPhone 4S package. So live with it, or buy one if you so inclined about it, super expensive for what it is from Apple

.. so yes I can live without it as long paperclip still being made LOL .. and yeah I wasn't angry about it.