yeah everything is running on the same network, I have ssh toggled on from sbsettings.
through terminal(mac) I received "connection refused" then I put in ssh root@(my i.p.), it asked for a password and "alpine" didnt work. I tried again in cyberduck and that didnt work, receiving the same password issue.
I then downloaded mobile terminal off cydia and changed my ssh password(it accepted alpine as the original) and still ran into the same issue on cyberduck.
I thought it was my router so I opened port 22 tcp/upd and that didnt work.
lol it was a struggle and I got nowhere.
i got this issue before try deleting openssh then reinstall, then change your password i had this problem often untill i changed the root