In all fairness, my HomePods have been behaving for the most part, other than this update issue and also, as of a couple weeks ago, future Siri requests yield a result of Siri not recognizing my voice (this is a widespread issue from what I understand). Siri knows who I am, everything works for voice recognition except if I ask Siri to turn off a light in 20 minutes. The response is that Siri doesn’t recognize my voice.
I’m just going to leave it be and hopefully it grabs the update one of these days. If not, OS 17 is right around the corner. This is not a network issue. This is an Apple/HomePod issue. This one is sitting in a direct line of sight about 10’ away from a hardwired eero Pro 6 that’s it’s connected to. It’s closer than the other one it stereo pairs with that had no problem updating.
I’ve tried everything short of selling my soul to the devil. This is a consumer grade product. It’s supposed to just work. Apple needs to get their heads out of their arses, put down that stupid little toy they call Vision Pro for a minute, that seems to be taking up all their time and resources, and fix everything else that’s broken.
OS 16 has been a nightmare for me all around, but especially for HomeKit and the Home app. More so the early stages of 16.